By Juliet Ebirim
Due to her past experiences of unpleasant relationships, Big Brother Naija star Ifu Ennada has stated that she may be cursed when it comes to men.
The reality TV star and entrepreneur, in a series of Instagram stories tagged “Useless men and me,” lamented the bad luck she’s had in relationships.
She recounted an experience with a man she was about to date in 2018. According to her, she learned that he was struggling to pay off a debt of 150,000 naira when she visited him.
Ifu Ennada revealed that he gave the man N200k to pay what he owed and buy food for himself, as he was hungry and suffering while giving people the impression that he was living well.
“I think I’m cursed when it comes to men … Many people may not believe this, but I never ask men for money,” she began.
“When I’m in a relationship I give to the man and I help build it. I remember a fool I almost dated in 2018, I went to see him, I saw that he was in debt for 150k while trying to impress and I gave him 200k to pay off the debt and buy some food for him. Dude was literally starving and people didn’t know it because he was living off past glory, so people didn’t know he was suffering. “
According to her, one of her former lovers resurfaced in her life, hence the publications. “As I write this, I’m just thinking of all the men I’ve been involved with in the past. There is none to whom I did not add value, even the one who has an influential father, the Idiot knows himself. Perhaps, I am like Paul, who is not destined to marry.
I am not heartbroken ah! In fact, I am happy to finish the year alone even though I started it in a relationship. I am only expressing myself because an idiot that I had forgotten suddenly resurfaced in my life a few days ago and reminded me how ungrateful he and other men were in my life. “
Continuing, she wrote “PS: No, I don’t have a character problem, I’m rightfully the sweetest girl you’ll ever meet as a friend of Lover.
Somehow I attract A-grade jerks. I’m going to be 30 in 2 years and I know my mom is getting ready to introduce me “where’s the husband talk?” Someone better tell my mother that I have other plans.
Let me earn this money first and have sustainable income streams. I will live my life to the fullest and on my own terms without men having a significant influence on my life, ”he declared.